Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Just a thought for ladies currently in a relationship...

20 wishes GUYS keep SECRET in a RELATIONSHIP

Guys wish girls would...

1. Trust guys. [ More often than not, guys don't like the idea of being texted every 5 secs. with "Where are you?", "Who are you with?", etc... ]

2. Smile back while holding hands in a walk. [ Smiles speak sincerity. ]

3. Return hugs. [ It makes a guy feel worthy and wanted. ]

4. Show puppy dog eyes sometimes. [ It's a powerful symbol which says "I'll always be here for you." ]

5. Cover guys' eyes while approaching from behind. [ It makes a guy feel ardent. ]

6. Text little but meaningful messages. [ In example, "I'll pray for you tonight that God be always at your side. Amen." ]

7. Tactfully say criticisms. [ Guys know they're far from perfect. Tell them honestly how they can improve in a manner of grace and respect not by rudeness nor embarassment. ]

8. Put her hand over the guy's shoulder. [ Okay, sometimes guys just need a friend. This is important because guys feel they are liked for who they are not for what they are. ]

9. Give a piece of chocolate sometimes. [ The way to a guy's heart is through his stomach. Girls seldom remember that guys are choc addicts. ]

10. Talk longer on a call. [ Don't end a conversation quickly. Guys like to know how girls feel not just what they feel." ]

11. Talk with guys when they're sad. [ Tell the guy it's okay to be sad and to cry because... (details up to you) ]

12. Give a pat on the shoulder when guys look downwards. [ It gives encouragement to they guy to face fear because somebody cares. ]

13. Open her heart. [ Guys want to know who the girl really is...not her vital statistics. ]

14. Tell guys when they need a haircut, a shave, etc... [ Guys are a little immature so treat them about 3 years younger than they really are... Guys love to be kids at heart ]

15. Act as a lady. [ Say "THANK YOU" and not "thanks" when offered a seat or having been opened the door for by a gentleman. ]

16. Don't backstab the guy. [ Guys have connections who tell them how girls talk about them when they're not there. Girls may not always think about this, but guys have hearts and feelings as well. These can be hurt as well. Guys' hearts can be battered, bruised and...BROKEN. ]

17. Sit down and talk a while. [ Conversations while sitting down are more honest and intimate than those done while standing up or walking. ]

18. When rain is pouring hard and the guy offers a jacket or a coat, thank him for it. [ A warm thank you is more effective than a fur coat in a downpour or a blizzard. ]

19. When a girl feels sleepy, just lean your head on a guy's shoulder. [ The guy will feel that you, the girl, is secure while you're with him. ]

20. When a guy asks a girl out, always say "maybe." [ This tells a guy honestly that you're not sure. Events may happen that can prevent you from being present at the date. Disappointment discourages. If ever you can't make it, try to inform the guy at least two hours before the date. At least you cared enough to inform him about it. ]

It's just a thought...but i maybe wrong about it.
- Jomi :-)

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